On Tue, 2013-07-16 at 09:42 +1000, NeilBrown wrote:> Being "polite" without being "nice" is quite possible.> It even has a name: Diplomacy.And we all know how circular/indirect/implied/uselesssome of those diplomatic conversations can be.Just remember to bring a 'Big Stick' and don't be shywhen it's necessary to display it.